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Dore impamvu 10 zitera abagabo benshi kwifuza kuryamana n’abakobwa bafite ikibuno kinini

Buri muntu agira amarangamutima ye, nk’uko nta muntu uteye nkundi, ariko hari ibyo usanga abantu benshi bahurizaho nubwo aba atari 100%, ni muri urwo rwego uzasanga abagabo benshi bahorana irari ryo kuryamana n’abakobwa/gore bafite ikibuno kinini.

Dore impamvu zitandukanye:

1.Kwibwira ko aribo baryoshya imibonano: Abagabo benshi iyo babona abakobwa cyangwa abagore banini, uko bakaraga ikubuno imbere yabo, bahita babibona mu ishusho yo mu buriri, bakibwira ko no mu buriri baryoshya imibonano mpuzabitsina.

2.Kwibwira ko ari bo banyara mu guhe cy’imibonano: Kunyara ku mugore mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina hari ababibona mu bagore bafite ikibuno kinini, ariko nta wahamya ko ariko biri.

3.Gufatika mu buriri: Nubwo abagabo bose badakunda kimwe, hari ababa bifuza umugore ufatika mu buriri, afata ku mubiri akumva n’akabeho karashize.

4.Kugira umuneza: Uretse n’abagore, mu buzima busanzwe bizwi ko abantu babyibushye bakunze kugwa neza, ni nayo mpamvu n’abagabo baba bibwira ko umugore uteye utyo anagwa neza mu buzima bwe bwose.

5.Kutaruha vuba: Kumubona ateye atyo, hari abahita bibwira ko ari nako aba afite imbaraga ku buryo atananirwa vuba mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina.

6.Kunyonga: Ubu ni uburyo abagore baryoherezamo abagabo mu gihe cy’imibonano, kuba umukobwa afite ikibuno kinini, abagabo bagahita babibona muri iyo shusho yo kubanyongera.

7.Guhindura pozisiyo: Aha birashoboka ko hari pozisiyo umugore unanutse igice cyo hasi atabasha, bityo ku bafite ikibuno kinini bakabonwa nk’ababasha pozisiyo nyinshi mu gihe cy’imibonano.

8.Ishema mu bandi: Cyane cyane abasore, bakunda kwirarira cyane, no kurata abakobwa baryamanye nabo, iyo afite ikibuno gifatika, ku musore aba yumva ko ari ishema, maze akamurata, yerekana amafoto ye, amuratira abandi, ku bwe aba yumva ari ishema cyane kuba yararyamanye n’umukobwa uteye uko.

9.Gukora igereranya: Hari abagabo baba bararyamanye n’abagore bananutse, badafite icyo kibuno, bityo bagahora bifuza kuryamana n’abafite ikibuno kinini ngo babashe gukora igereranya, bumve itandukaniro riri hagati yabo.

10.Irari n’ubushurashuzi: Hari abagabo batajya banyurwa n’abagore babo, igihe cyose agahorana agatima gahagaze, umukobwa wese abonye akumva aramushatse, yagera kuri aba bafite ikibuno kinini bikaba akarusho kandi wenda n’umugore we asanzwe agifite.

Nyuma y’izi mpamvu zose, rimwe na rimwe hari igihe ibyo bibwira basanga bibeshye, kugira ikibuno kinini ntabwo bihita bisobanura ko ufite igitsina kini cyangwa se uryoshya imibonano, kuko hari n’ababa batabyibushye kandi bakanezeza abagabo cyane, n’ibindi rero hari igihe kuba ari ukwibeshya cyane!! Inama, ‘kunda uwo mwashakanye, ibyishimo wifuza byose uzabimubonaho”.

Kamikazi Gentille/Bwiza.com

 

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