Gushaka abagore benshi ku mukirisitu ni icyaha?

Bibiliya, nk’igitabo cy’umurongo ngenderwaho ku myitwarire y’abakirisitu, igaragaza ko gushaka umugore umwe ari gahunda Imana yashyizeho kuva kera. Mu Itangiriro 2:24, haranditse ngo: "Ni cyo gituma umugabo azasiga se na nyina, akomatana n’umugore we, bombi bakaba umubiri umwe." Uyu murongo werekana ko gushaka umugore umwe ari gahunda Imana yashyizeho.

Gusa, hari abagabo benshi bo muri Bibiliya bafite abagore benshi, nka Aburahamu, Yakobo, Dawidi na Salomo. Ariko, ni ngombwa kumva ko ibi byari ibihe bidasanzwe, aho Abisirayeli bashoboraga kugira abagore benshi nk’umuco cyangwa ku mpamvu z’ubukungu. N’ubwo Salomo yari afite abagore benshi, Imana yagaragaje ko bidashimishije kuko byagize ingaruka mbi ku buzima bwe bwo mu mwuka (1 Abami 11:3-4). "Yari afite abagore b’imfura magana arindwi, n’ab’inshoreke magana atatu. Nuko abagore be bamuyobya umutima. Salomo amaze gusaza, abagore be bamutwara umutima agakurikiza izindi mana, bigatuma umutima we utagitunganira Uwiteka Imana ye nk’uko uwa se Dawidi wari umeze."

Abahanga mu myemerere y’Abakirisitu bavuga ko ubuzima bwa Salomo ari isomo ryerekana ingaruka zo kurenga ku mabwiriza y’Imana. Gushaka abagore benshi byatumye atandukira inzira y’Imana, biganisha ku kwiyongera k’umubabaro mu muryango n’ubuzima bwe bwite.

Mu biganiro byo mu miryango n’amadini muri iki gihe, abenshi bagaragaza ko gushaka abagore benshi ari ikibazo cyateza ibibazo mu muryango. Umwe mu banyamadini yavuze ati: "Gushaka abagore benshi bitesha agaciro umubano wa nyawo hagati y’umugabo n’umugore. Ahubwo bitera amakimbirane n’irondabwoko mu muryango."

Ku rundi ruhande, hari abagaragaza ko mu muco gakondo, gushaka abagore benshi byabaga bifite akamaro. Ibi bikunze kugaragara mu muco w’Afurika, aho gushaka abagore benshi byashoboraga gufasha mu bikorwa byo guteza imbere imiryango cyangwa gukemura ibibazo by’ubukungu.

Mu mico ya none, cyane cyane mu bihugu biteye imbere, gushaka abagore benshi ntibikunze kugaragara kubera amategeko, imyizerere y’amadini, ndetse no guha agaciro uburinganire bw’umugabo n’umugore. Mu bihugu bimwe bya Afurika n’Aziya, hari aho bigikunda kwemerwa mu buryo bwemewe n’amategeko cyangwa mu muco, ariko ingaruka zigaragara mu buryo bwo kwiyongera kw’amakimbirane n’ibibazo by’ubukungu.

Mu kiganiro kimwe cyabereye mu muryango, umwe mu bashakanye yagize ati: "Iyo umugabo yihagazeho agashaka umugore umwe, bituma urugo rwe rugira ituze kandi abana bakagira urukundo rwa kibyeyi rukwiye."

Undi, wivugiye ko ari mu murongo wa gakondo, yavuze ko gushaka abagore benshi hari abo bifasha kubaka umuryango mugari, ariko nabwo bigasaba ubushobozi n’ubuyobozi.

Bibiliya ivuga byinshi ku birebana no gushaka abagore benshi, kandi ibitekerezo byayo bishingira ku mategeko, amateka, n’inyigisho zijyanye n’umubano w’umugabo n’umugore. Dore ingingo z’ingenzi Bibiliya ivuga kuri iki kibazo:

Itangiriro 2:24: Imana yashyizeho ko umugabo agomba gushaka umugore umwe. Haranditse ngo: "Ni cyo gituma umugabo azasiga se na nyina, akomatana n’umugore we, bombi bakaba umubiri umwe."

Hari ingero z’abantu bagiye bagira abagore benshi muri Bibiliya, nubwo bitavuze ko Imana yashimishwaga n’iyo myitwarire:

Aburahamu: Yashatse Sara ariko nyuma arongora na Hagari ku bw’impamvu zo kubina urubyaro (Itangiriro 16).
Yakobo: Yashatse abagore babiri, Leya na Rasheli, kubera ibibazo byo mu muryango (Itangiriro 29).
Dawidi: Yarongoye abagore benshi ariko bigira ingaruka zikomeye, harimo no guteza amakimbirane mu muryango (2 Samweli 11).
Salomo: Yari afite abagore benshi (abagore 700 n’inshoreke 300), bikamuviramo kuva mu nzira y’Imana kuko abo bagore bamushutse mu myizerere y’ibigirwamana (1 Abami 11:3-4).

Izi ngero zerekana ko kugira abagore benshi byari ibihe bidasanzwe mu mateka, ariko ntibivuze ko byari byemewe cyangwa byashimishaga Imana.

Bibiliya irushaho gushimangira ko umugabo agomba kuba umwe n’umugore we:
Matayo 19:4-6: Yesu yavuze ko Imana yaremye umugabo umwe n’umugore umwe ngo bagire umubano wihariye, kandi ntawe ukwiye kubatandukanya.
1 Timoteyo 3:2: Pawulo yavuze ko umuyobozi mu itorero agomba kuba umugabo w’umugore umwe, ashimangira ko ari urugero rwiza rw’imyitwarire.

Bibiliya igaragaza ko gushaka abagore benshi byazanye ingaruka mbi, nka:
Amakimbirane mu muryango: Urugero rwa Yakobo, aho abagore be Leya na Rasheli bagiraga ishyari rikomeye hagati yabo (Itangiriro 30:1).
– Guta inzira y’Imana: Salomo yavuye ku Mana kubera abagore benshi bamusabye gusenga ibigirwamana (1 Abami 11:4).

Bibiliya iduha urugero rwo kwirinda gukora ibihabanye n’ibyo Imana yateganyije, nubwo abantu bafite uburenganzira bwo guhitamo. Umugabo n’umugore bagomba gukundana, kubahana no gufatanya mu buzima, kandi bakaba umubiri umwe nk’uko Bibiliya ibyigisha.

Mu by’ukuri, nubwo abagabo bamwe muri Bibiliya bagize abagore benshi, icyo Imana ishimangira ni uko gushaka umugore umwe ari byo bigaragara nk’amahame nyakuri yo kubaka urugo rufite amahoro kandi rugendana n’ugushaka kw’Imana.