{"id":11046,"date":"2018-07-21T13:51:00","date_gmt":"2018-07-21T13:51:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.bwiza.com\/2018\/07\/21\/dore-ingingo-7-zizakurinda-gutakaza-akayabo-k-039-urukundo\/"},"modified":"2025-02-03T01:02:08","modified_gmt":"2025-02-02T23:02:08","slug":"dore-ingingo-7-zizakurinda-gutakaza-akayabo-k-039-urukundo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bwiza.com\/?p=11046","title":{"rendered":"Dore ingingo 7 zizakurinda gutakaza akayabo k&#039;urukundo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <strong>Mu rukundo ntihagomba ibintu bihambaye cyane cyangwa se by\u2019akataraboneka kugira ngo umukobwa amenye ko umuhungu amukunda. Hari ibintu byoroheje bigira igisobanuro gikomeye mu rukundo.<\/strong> <\/p>\n<p> <strong>1.Kugufasha mu bibazo byawe<\/strong> <\/p>\n<p>Burya mu buzima hari ubwo ibintu bikugora ukaremererwa, ukaba wanakenera ko haba uwagufasha. Iyo umuhungu akwegereye mu bibazo akifuza kukuba hafi mu bikugoye uzamenye ko (ashobora kuba) agukunda nyabyo.<\/p>\n<p> <strong>2. Kukubwira ko waberewe mu myambarire<\/strong> <\/p>\n<p>Umuntu yambara imyambaro itandukanye, bitewe n\u2019 igihe n\u2019 icyo agiye gukora. Hari ubwo wambara neza ugiye nko gusenga, mu birori n\u2019 ahandi. Iyo wumvise umuhungu (umukunzi), akubwiye ko wambaye neza aba yakwitayeho, bituma wumva umwishimiye ukarushaho kumukunda.<\/p>\n<p> <strong>3. Kukuzanira ibyo (ibikoresho) wari ukeneye<\/strong> <\/p>\n<p>Ntibyoroha kenshi kujya imbere y\u2019 umuhungu umubwira ngo wanguriye ibi, wanguriye biriya. Iyo umuhungu yibwirije akabona ko hari ibikoresho ukenera bimwe na bimwe byagushiriyeho maze akabikugurira, agafata umwanya akakujyana mu isoko, mu iduka, n\u2019 ahandi maze akakugurira udukoresho tumwe na tumwe wari warabuze aho uhera udusaba (utumusaba), ujye umenya ko agutekerezaho kenshi kandi ko agukunda. Bituma urukundo rwawe kuri we ruhindura isura rugakura.<\/p>\n<p> <strong>4. Kwicara akagutega amatwi<\/strong> <\/p>\n<p>Iyo uri mu bitekerezo byinshi, ufite umunaniro (stress), bigusaba akenshi ko ufata akanya ukaruhuka. Iyo umuhungu amenye ko ko usa n\u2019 uwigunze akagutega amatwi akakwumva iteka bigira byinshi bikubwira. Muri icyo gihe ijambo akubwiye rikubera nk\u2019 ijambo rikomeye ry\u2019 ubwenge rigufasha rikakuruhura.<\/p>\n<p> <strong>5. Gushaka umwanya wo gusangira<\/strong> <\/p>\n<p>Iki ni ikimenyetso gito ariko gihambaye kuko cyongera urugwiro n\u2019 urukundo. Gusa, si ngombwa ngo bimuhende cyane kuko ashobora no kugura agakawa (coffee) cyangwa yewe ka fanta ubundi mukicara ahantu mugasangira. Hari ubwo umukobwa abyifuza kenshi akumva abuze imbaraga n\u2019 umunwa byo kubihingutsa imbere y\u2019 umuhungu (wenda yanga ko yabifata nabi cyangwa ukundi). Iyo yibwirije akabikora birashimisha.<\/p>\n<p> <strong>6. Kumwoherereza ubutumwa bugufi<\/strong> <\/p>\n<p>Ntibihenda ariko ushobora gusanga hari abahungu wenda batabyitaho [nako ndizera ko bariho]. Ubutumwa cyangwa impano (cards), si iby\u2019 umunsi w\u2019 abakundanye cyangwa indi minsi mikuru gusa. Hari ubwo umukobwa ategereze impano cyangwa ubutumwa agaheba. Iyo umuhungu abitekereje akikora ukabona akoherereje ubutumwa, aragutunguye (surprise) atagombye gutegereza umunsi mukuru, byongera umunezero. Ni byiza kuko birushaho kukwereka ko akwitayeho.<\/p>\n<p> <strong>7. Gutemberana ahantu<\/strong> <\/p>\n<p>Tugenda mu mamodoka atwara abantu (public transport), bikadufasha ariko bikanatunaniza rimwe na rimwe. Hari ubwo wumva ushaka kwitaruraho gato ku mihangayiko ya buri munsi (frustration), biba byiza iyo mugiye nk\u2019 ahantu hitaruye maze akaba ari we ukuyobora.<\/p>\n<p>Uzishimira aho hantu yaguhitiyemo kandi nyuma y\u2019 igihe uzajya ushaka kenshi ko yazongera akakujyana n\u2019 ahandi utari uzi kuko aho yakujyanye hakubeye urwibutso rukomeye mu mutima<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mu rukundo ntihagomba ibintu bihambaye cyane cyangwa se by\u2019akataraboneka kugira ngo umukobwa amenye ko umuhungu amukunda. Hari ibintu byoroheje bigira igisobanuro gikomeye mu rukundo. 1.Kugufasha mu bibazo byawe Burya mu buzima hari ubwo ibintu bikugora ukaremererwa, ukaba wanakenera ko haba uwagufasha. 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