Abenshi mu binjiye mu rukundo vuba usanga batamenya uko bitwara kugirango bakomeze basigasire urukundo rwabo, ku buryo usanga bashobora no gutandukana kandi urukundo rwabo rutaranamara kabiri.<\/p>\n
Uku kugenda mu munyenga w\u2019urukundo ariko hari byinshi bakora ndetse bimwe ntibamenye ko ari amakosa akomeye ashobora gutuma ibyo bibwiraga ko bazabana ubuziraherezo biba amateka.<\/p>\n
Dore amwe mu makosa akwiye kwirindwa n\u2019abantu bagitangira gukundana nk\u2019uko tubikesha n\u2019urubuga Elcrema.<\/p>\n
1. Kwihutisha gahunda zose<\/p>\n
Ibyishimo n\u2019umunezero wo kuba uri kumwe n\u2019umuntu wumva ukunze cyane bishobora gutuma benshi mu bagitangira gukundana bafata imyanzuro yihuse cyane.<\/p>\n
Iga gutwara ibintu gahoro gahoro ndetse wirinde gutangira gutekereza no kuvuga kuri ya mishinga y\u2019igihe kirekire nk\u2019ubukwe, abana n\u2019ibindi.<\/p>\n
Mwembi mukwiye kugerageza kubanza gufata umwanya uhagije mukareka umubano wanyu ukabanza gukura mbere yo gutangira gufata imyanzuro ikomeye.<\/p>\n
2. Gusangiza abandi iby\u2019urukundo rwanyu<\/p>\n
Irindi kosa rikwiye kwirindwa n\u2019abantu bagitangira gukundana n\u2019ukwihutira gusangiza inshuti n\u2019abavandimwe amakuru yose yerekeranye n\u2019urukundo rwanyu.<\/p>\n
Inshuti zawe ntabwo zikwiye kumenya buri kantu kose kaba hagati yawe n\u2019umukunzi wawe, ntabwo zikwiye kumenya amabanga yanyu yose uko yakabaye.<\/p>\n
Ni byiza ko mwiga gushyiraho umurongo ntarengwa mu byo mubabwira kuko ahanini bashobora kwitwaza intege nke zanyu ugasanga barabasenyeye kandi rutararenga umutaru.<\/p>\n
3. Kumva mwahorana<\/p>\n
Mariage.com itangaza ko iyo abantu bagitangira gukundana baba bumva bahorana igihe cyose ndetse bakumva ibintu byose bakwiye kubikora bari kumwe.<\/p>\n
Ibi ariko n\u2019ikosa rikomeye rishobora kwangiza umubano wanyu kandi mu gihe gito kuko nubwo ari ingenzi cyane, uba unakeneye umwanya wo kugira byinshi ushyira ku murongo byerekeranye n\u2019ubuzima bwawe bwite.<\/p>\n
Ikindi kandi guhana umwanya bituma mutarambirana vuba ngo umwe yumve atacyifuza kuba hamwe n\u2019undi.<\/p>\n
4. Kumva ko mu rukundo rwanyu ibintu byose bizahora ari byiza<\/p>\n
Nta rukundo cyangwa umubano udahura n\u2019imbogamizi, kumva ko rero uwanyu uzahora utunganye ni ukwibeshya cyane.<\/p>\n
Niba utekereza gutyo kandi mukiri mu ntangiriro nimugira icyo munanirwa kumvikanaho uzahita wumva ko birangiye ndetse ko ariryo herezo ry\u2019urukundo rwanyu, aho gushakisha uko mubikemura.<\/p>\n
5. Guha agaciro gake inshuti n\u2019umuryango wawe<\/p>\n
Iri n\u2019ikosa rikunda guhurirwaho n\u2019abantu benshi bagitangira gukundana aho usanga benshi baha umwanya munini umubano wabo bakibagirwa ko hari inshuti n\u2019umuryango basanganywe.<\/p>\n
Nubwo ari byiza ko wita cyane ku rukundo rwanyu rukiri mu ntangiriro, ntibikwiye gutuma wibagirwa ko wari usanzwe ufite inshuti n\u2019umuryango kandi ko nabo bagukeneye.<\/p>\n
6. Kumva ko muzahuza muri byose<\/p>\n
Ikindi abantu bagitangira gukundana bakwiye kwirinda, ni ugutekereza ko iteka bazahuza mu bintu byose. Kuba mukundana ntibikuraho ko hari imyumvire imwe n\u2019imwe mudahuje.<\/p>\n
Kudahuza ntibikwiye kubatanya ahubwo buri umwe agomba guhora yiteguye kumva no guha agaciro igitekerezo cy\u2019umukunzi we kabone niyo yaba atari ko we abyumva.<\/p>\n
Ntitwibagirwe ko atari ibi bintu byonyine abinjiye mu rukundo vuba bakwiye kwirinda gusa, hari n’ibindi bitandukanye byakwirindwa urukundo rukarushaho kugenda neza.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Abenshi mu binjiye mu rukundo vuba usanga batamenya uko bitwara kugirango bakomeze basigasire urukundo rwabo, ku buryo usanga bashobora no gutandukana kandi urukundo rwabo rutaranamara kabiri. Uku kugenda mu munyenga w\u2019urukundo ariko hari byinshi bakora ndetse bimwe ntibamenye ko ari amakosa akomeye ashobora gutuma ibyo bibwiraga ko bazabana ubuziraherezo biba amateka. Dore amwe mu makosa […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[441],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-58796","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-urukundo-rw"],"yoast_head":"\n