Abashakashatsi mu by’imitekerereze n’imibanire bagaragaje ko hari amagambo n’ibibazo bamwe mu basore bakoresha mu biganiro n’abakobwa, bigamije kubakururira mu mibonano mpuzabitsina, kenshi badasobanuriwe neza ibiri kuba.
Ibyo bibazo, nk’uko bitangazwa n’abahanga, biba bisa n’iby’urwenya cyangwa ibiganiro bisanzwe, ariko bikaba bifite intego yo gutuma umukobwa atekereza cyangwa yinjira mu mwuka wo gushaka gukora imibonano.
Urugero ni nko kumubaza “Iyo ugiye kuryama wambara iki?”, cyangwa “Ni he ku mubiri wawe hagutera ibyiyumviro bikomeye kurusha ahandi?”. Ibi bibazo byongera amarangamutima ajyanye n’igitsina, bityo bikaba bishobora kugira ingaruka ku myanzuro umukobwa yafata mu buryo budashingiye ku bushake busesuye.
Dr. Aimée N., impuguke mu mibanire, avuga ko “Ibi biganiro bishobora kuba nk’uburozi buhoro buhoro bwinjira mu mitekerereze y’umuntu, bigatuma adafata umwanzuro wubakiye ku bushishozi.”
Inkuru ikomeza ivuga ko ibi ari amayeri akunze gukoreshwa cyane ku mbuga nkoranyambaga n’ubundi buryo bw’itumanaho, aho abasore bashaka gusuzuma uburyo umukobwa yakira amagambo ajyanye n’imibonano, bagamije kumwigarurira mu buryo bumeze nko guhatiriza.
Abasesenguzi basaba ko hakorwa ubukangurambaga bugamije kurinda abakobwa, cyane cyane urubyiruko, kumenya gutandukanya urukundo rw’ukuri n’urugamije inyungu z’igihe gito.
