Mu minsi ya vuba nibwo bamwe mu bakunzi n’abasomyi ba Bwiza.com batwandikiye batugisha inama ku bibazo abagabo bamwe na bamwe bahura nabyo byo kurangiza vuba,abafite ibitsina bito cyangwa bakora akazi k’ingufu ntibabashe gutonora abagore babo ku buriri mu gihe cy’akabariro.
Urubuga G Spot rusobanura uburyo umugabo yakoresha mu gutera akabariro n’uburyo yabigenza kandi imibonano igakomeza kuryoha nk’uko bisanzwe.
Bituma umugabo atarangiza vuba: Inzobere muby’ubuzima bw’imyororokere zo muri kaminuza ya New York University zitangaza ko 65% by’abagabo badakoresha intoki bataryohereza abagore babo uko bikwiye mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina .
Bene aba bagabo kandi ngo bakunda guhura n’ikibazo cyo kurangiza vuba ahanini bitewe no kwinjira cyane mu gihe batera akabariro cyangwa bafite igitsina kigufi.
Uburyo bwiza bwo kunyaza ibanga ryo kurangiza kw’umugore: Gukoresha intoki mu gihe cy’akabariro ni bumwe mu buryo bwiza kandi bufasha umugabo gushimisha umugore.
bituma umugabo atarangiza vuba rimwe na rimwe bigafasha umugabo no kunyaza ari nabyo byishimo bya nyuma.
Kugira ariko ngo igikorwa cyo gutera akabariro kigende neza bisaba ko buri wese aba yiteguye kandi yishimanye na mugenzi we.
kuba uwo mukorana imibonano yifuza ko ukoresha intoki: Gukoresha intoki mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina bituma umugabo ataruha vuba cyangwa ngo arangize vuba.
Biba byiza iyo umugabo akoresheje intoki yabanje kubyumvikanaho n’umugore we kugira ngo bitamubabaza cyangwa bigatuma atishimira icyo gikorwa.
kugenzura niba intoki zawe zifite isuku: isuku ni ngombwa mu buzima bwa buri munsi bikaba akarusho mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina.
Imyanya ndagagitsina nicyo gice kumubiri cyoroha cyane mu gufatwa n’ubwandu ubwo ari bwo bwose butera indwara.
Umuvuduko mukeya : kurongora ukoresheje intoki bisaba ubwitonzi kugira ngo ubashe gushyitsa aho umugore yifuza ko ugeza,
Igihe wihutishije bituma yumva usa nk’umukirigita bikaba byatuma akwiyaka cyangwa akakwinuba maze imibonano mpuzabitsina ntigende neza.
Guhinduranya intoki: Koresha urutoki rumwe,ebyiri cyangwa eshatu ndende zo kukiganza ushingiye ku bushake umugore wawe afite nibyo bizagufasha kumugeza ku byishimo bya nyuma.
Ku mukorakora mbere yo kwinjiza intoki:
Kwinjiza intoki sibyo biryohera umugore ahubwo kumukorakora ku myanya ituma aryoherwa irimo imyanya ndangagitsina ,amabere,imisatsi ndetse no kumusoma nibyo bizagufasha kumushimisha bya nyabyo.
Koresha uburyo bwo kunyaza ukoresheje intoki bizagufasha kumwemeza ko uzi icyo gukora kuko aba yumva umukoreye ibyo yifuza, iyo urimo kumunyaza.
Guhinduranya uburyo ubikoramo: igenda uhinduranya niba wakoreshaga intoki 2 ugahindura ugakoresha rumwe cyangwa eshatu.
Ubwo buryo bwose uba ugomba kubukoresha ubusimburanaya kugira ngo utamurambira ukoresha uburyo bumwe, bigatuma yumva ntacyo urimo gukora
Gukoresha intoki mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina ni bumwe mu buryo bwifashishwa akenshi n’abagabo bafite igitsina kigufi bikabafasha mu gukora imibonano
Ubu buryo bwunganira gukoresha igitsina bugafasha abagabo bafite ikibazo cyo kugira igitsina gito cyangwa barangiza vuba.
Bifasha kandi umugabo kuryohereza umugore we mu gihe byabaye ngombwa ko akora imibonano mpuzabitsina arwaye cyangwa ananiwe bigatuma umugore aryoherwa kandi akagera ku byishimo byuzuye.
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