Mu gihe abantu benshi batekereza ko impano zihenze, ingendo zidasanzwe cyangwa amafunguro y’urukundo ari byo bituma urukundo rukomera, ubushakashatsi bushya bwakozwe na Kaminuza ya Texas muri Leta Zunze Ubumwe za Amerika bugaragaza ko hari ikindi kintu cyoroheje ariko gifite imbaraga kurushaho.
Ubwo bushakashatsi bwerekanye ko gusangira inshingano za buri munsi hagati y’abashakanye bishobora kugira uruhare rukomeye mu kongera urukundo, ubusabane ndetse n’ibyishimo mu rugo.
Ibibazo Bito Bya Buri Munsi Bishobora Kubangamira Umubano
Ubushakashatsi bwatangajwe mu kinyamakuru cya siyansi cyitwa Personality and Psychology Bulletin bwagaragaje ko ibibazo bito abantu bahura na byo buri munsi ari byo bikunze kugira ingaruka mbi ku mubano kurusha ibibazo bikomeye abantu benshi batekereza.
Ibi bibazo bishobora kuba birimo umubyigano mu muhanda, akazi kenshi, ubutumwa bwinshi bugomba gusubizwa, imirimo yo mu rugo itarangiye cyangwa umunaniro ukabije nyuma y’umunsi muremure.
Nubwo ibi bintu bishobora kugaragara nk’ibidafite uburemere, ubushakashatsi bwerekanye ko bishobora kugabanya igihe abashakanye bamarana ndetse n’ubushake bwo kuganira no kwegerana.
Uko Ubushakashatsi Bwakozwe
Abashakashatsi bakurikiranye abashakanye 144 bari bamaze igihe gito bashyingiranywe kandi badafite abana.
Mu bihe bitandukanye byo kubana kwabo, buri wese yasabwaga kuzuza ibibazo bya buri munsi mu gihe cy’ibyumweru bibiri, agaragaza urugero rw’umunaniro cyangwa ibibazo yahuye na byo ndetse n’igihe yagiranye ibihe by’urukundo cyangwa ubusabane n’uwo bashakanye.
Ibyavuye muri ubu bushakashatsi byatangaje benshi.
Abashakashatsi basanze ibibazo bito bya buri munsi ari byo byahuzwaga cyane no kugabanuka kw’ubusabane hagati y’abashakanye kurusha ibibazo bikomeye by’ubuzima.
Impamvu Umunaniro Ugabanya Ubusabane
Abashakashatsi basobanuye ko iyo umuntu avuye mu kazi cyangwa mu bikorwa byamunanije umunsi wose, akenshi aba ashaka kubanza kuruhuka no kwigunga gato kugira ngo agarure imbaraga.
Ibi bituma bamwe bagabanya ibiganiro n’abakunzi babo cyangwa bakabura ubushake bwo kumarana igihe.
Iyo ibi bikomeje kuba kenshi, bishobora gutuma habaho intera hagati y’abashakanye nubwo nta makimbirane afatika ari hagati yabo.
Abagore Bashobora Kubigiraho Ingaruka Kurushaho
Ubushakashatsi bwagaragaje ko abagore bakunze kugira ingaruka nyinshi ku rwego rw’ubusabane iyo bahangayikishijwe n’inshingano nyinshi cyangwa umunaniro.
Abashakashatsi bavuga ko ibi bishobora guterwa n’uko abagore benshi usanga bafite inshingano nyinshi zirimo akazi, kwita ku rugo ndetse no kwita ku bandi bagize umuryango.
Iyo ibyo byose bibaye byinshi, umubiri n’ibitekerezo bishobora kunanirwa ku buryo bigira ingaruka ku buryo umuntu yumva yifuza kwegera mugenzi we.
Igisubizo: Gusangira Inshingano
Ubutumwa nyamukuru ubu bushakashatsi butanga ni uko gusangira inshingano hagati y’abashakanye bishobora gufasha cyane.
Urugero, iyo umwe afashije undi gukora imirimo yo mu rugo, guteka, koza ibikoresho cyangwa kwita ku bindi bikorwa bya buri munsi, bivanaho igitutu kuri mugenzi we.
Ibi bituma haboneka umwanya munini wo kuganira, kuruhuka no kwishimira kubana.
Abashakashatsi bavuga ko ibikorwa bito byo gufashanya buri munsi bishobora kugira akamaro kurusha impano zihenze cyangwa ibirori bidasanzwe bikorwa rimwe na rimwe.
Ubushakashatsi bwa Kaminuza ya Texas bwerekana ko urukundo rukomeye rutubakwa gusa n’amagambo meza cyangwa impano z’agaciro. Ahubwo rutangirira mu bintu byoroheje bya buri munsi nko gufashanya, gusangira inshingano no kwita ku mibereho ya mugenzi wawe.
Iyo umuntu afashije uwo bashakanye kugabanya umutwaro wa buri munsi, aba atanze umusanzu ukomeye mu kubaka umubano urambye, urimo ibyishimo, icyizere n’ubusabane bwimbitse.
Mu yandi magambo, rimwe na rimwe koza amasahani cyangwa gufasha mu mirimo yo mu rugo bishobora kugira uruhare runini mu gukomeza urukundo kurusha uko abantu benshi babitekereza.
